Because She Loves It

Some may look at this and see a woman kneeling in submission before a man. He holds her hair to better control her movements, and to push her onto his cock over and over when the time is right.<br />
A different story plays out in my head.<br />
I see her sitting comfortably while he has to stand. I see his legs shaking with pleasure, spread to allow her more comfortable access.<br />
I see him lovingly holding her hair back out of her face, as he&rsquo;s been trained to do, so she can focus on her enjoyment of her cock.<br />
I see her teasing her cock, toying with it. Reveling in her power to make him respond, to need. I see her licking along each side, savoring the scent and taste of the man she has claimed as her own, feeling him twitch and hearing him gasp as she reaches his sensitive head.<br />
I see her doing this for as long as she wants. Teasing and playing. Because she loves it.<br />
I see her dropping his cock when she&rsquo;s through, casually getting up off the floor, and asking what he&rsquo;s making for dinner.<br />
This is the life I love. This is how I see the world.<br />
- MsNN

Some may look at this and see a woman kneeling in submission before a man. He holds her hair to better control her movements, and to push her onto his cock over and over when the time is right.

A different story plays out in my head.

I see her sitting comfortably while he has to stand. I see his legs shaking with pleasure, spread to allow her more comfortable access.

I see him lovingly holding her hair back out of her face, as he’s been trained to do, so she can focus on her enjoyment of her cock.

I see her teasing her cock, toying with it. Reveling in her power to make him respond, to need. I see her licking along each side, savoring the scent and taste of the man she has claimed as her own, feeling him twitch and hearing him gasp as she reaches his sensitive head.

I see her doing this for as long as she wants. Teasing and playing. Because she loves it.

I see her dropping his cock when she’s through, casually getting up off the floor, and asking what he’s making for dinner.

This is the life I love. This is how I see the world.

– MsNN

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You Watch

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On your knees, looking up at the fetish dream standing before you. All you see is an expanse of pale skin and shiny black latex.

I turn this way and that, admiring the outfit that you bought and helped me into.

I don’t acknowledge you as I preen in front of the mirror, but I know you are right there behind me, attending, waiting on your knees for the night’s activities to begin.

I twist and bend, loving how the latex stretches around and binds my body. I feel myself with my slick hands, marveling at how my sense of touch is so changed with these gloves on.

I rub my hands along each arm, down my belly, over my thighs. I slide them across my ass cheeks, lifting and separating them, putting on a show for you.

And you watch.

And your cock gets hard.

And you have to restrain yourself from touching.

Kissing.

Licking.

And then I turn to you, a mischievous smile and a twinkle in my eyes…

– MsNN

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Precious Pet

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He let out a deep breath. It was over. He still hadn’t cum.

She’d held him, his back to her, for over an hour. Whispered in his ear, stroked his cock, keeping it rock-hard and just on the edge of cumming.

He’s still slick with pre-cum, and he can feel the slight chill of it drying as she holds him, pets him, tells him how precious a pet he is.

He can’t think of anything he’d rather feel.

– MsNN

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Date Night

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It’s date night.

Before we go out, you shower, of course. Straight from the shower, you come to me, pushing your face eagerly between my legs to pleasure me with your expert mouth and hands.

I squirt for you, crying out in pleasure and release.

I rub my hot, sweet wetness into your face and hair. Your powerful male scent was washed away by your shower and is replaced with my deeply feminine scent.

You’re marked for the evening as surely as if you wore my collar and leash in public. And every man and woman we meet tonight, will know you are claimed. Know you are mine, without knowing why they know.

Exerpt from Because I Said So, a collection of writings exploring the themes of female dominance, male submission, cuckoldry, and more.

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Wiggle For Me

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“That’s it. Wiggle for me like the little slut you are.”

“Yes, I’m your slut.”

“Mmmm. I know that. Tell me I own you.”

“You own me. You own all of me.”

“Do you want to cum? Does this sweet little cock need to cum for me?”

“Yes. So much.”

“How badly do you need to cum for me?”

*moans* “So bad. It aches.”

“You love that ache, don’t you? You need that ache.”

“Oh god yes, I love that ache.”

“Well, I think we can go a few more days.
But don’t stop wiggling. I’m not done with you, yet.”

– MsNN

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You Can’t Always Get What You Want…

So, even living a D/s relationship, sometimes things get derailed, and you don’t do happy kinky fun times like you may have planned.

For example, last night, I’d planned to have my Pet bare as the day he was born, plugged, and cooking for me in a cute little apron.

That’s not what happened. In fact, we didn’t even get wild.

But, as the famous English poets say…

You can’t always get what you want
But if you try sometimes you just might find
You get what you need
You get what you need–yeah, oh baby

And they are right. Sometimes what we need is not what we want. Or, perhaps I should say that sometimes what I want is not what I need. And I got exactly what I needed last night.

I cooked alongside my pet. We made a few mistakes, and ate them anyway, complimenting each other on the food (alongside some gentle ribbing). It took us until 8:30 to eat. We watched some random television, touching each other and snuggling. I fell asleep on his lap.

Not very dominant of me. Not a few hours of edging as I’d planned.

And yet, it felt good. It recharged our batteries. Our intimacy. And this morning, we were right back on track with some edging, dirty talk, and big O’s before work this morning.

Because no matter whether we get what we want, we ALWAYS focus on each others’ needs, and we never go long without meeting them. And yes, I make sure of this, when things seem like they might slip, because I am the dominant, and that makes me the responsible one.

So, if you are in a D/s relationship, and it feels like you’ve slipped, it’s easy to get back on track, if you just focus on your loved one’s needs.

If you are looking for a D/s relationship, realize that life happens, and sometimes dinner will get started late, take longer than expected, turn out yummy, but not quite as you expected, and you (I) may fall asleep on your sweetie.

It will happen.

And when it does, realize that you can’t always get what you want.

But, with the right partner, you will, always, get what you need.

Have a wonderful day!

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A Way To Keep Warm…

So, the northern hemisphere is receiving colder-than-seasonal temperatures right now, and I am NOT loving it. I was born in Iowa, which gets pretty darn cold, but I moved to North Carolina for the milder climate.

Sure, we get winter here, but it’s really only six good weeks in January and February, just long enough to complain, then it’s back to spring temps.

That’s how I like it, since I have a hard time keeping warm when it’s cold out.

Last night, for example. My pet and I played, and for a while I was shivering, because the temp was dropping outside, and the heater had not yet caught up.

But, as always, good play really got my blood pumping, and I had no long-term worries.

In fact, we played around with some new stuff my pet ordered for me. We got the Flint from Bad Dragon, and their Cum Lube as well.

I’ve posted pics, a vid of Flint, and a review of the Cum Lube in the forums under the “In Through the Out Door” private area, for those who have purchased.

I’ve also added some topics to the “Because I Said So” and “She’s In Control” sections. If you have purchased either of these from me, you should have received your notification of access. If not, please contact me.

The free section also has a few good topics, like:

What is the difference between a top and a sub?
How do I aproach a mistress that Im drawn to?
Regarding The Use of Toys with Multiple Partners…

These are all questions that have been asked of me, and I copied the answers into the forums as well, for you.

You don’t need to be signed in to view them, only to reply.

I hope you’ll join me in the forums, and get your questions answered!

And I hope I’ll manage to keep my poor toes warm until tonight, when I can get back to that blood pumping fun I’ve been talking about.

*smiles*

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How To Get Your Foot In The (Back)Door…

Yes, I know it’s a silly subject line. I mean it to be. I smiled quite wide when writing it, and I hope you smiled just a little, at least, when reading it.

Today, I am uber-excited!

I received, via email, an AMAZING outline for a new book I’m co-authoring. About foot worship. And the woman I am working with is not only experienced and gorgeous, she is brilliant!

We met last Thursday, talked a bit, and today, she sent me an outline for THE MOST AMAZING foot worship book, ever!

But, you ask, what does this have to do with “In Through the Out Door?” AHA! Did you READ the subject?

*waits for it*

Yes. Exactly. LOL! I’ve seen it! This lady has done it. All five little piggies. Inside.

While that’s not my thing, I admire it. And for those men I know who love feet and bottom play, it can be an intimate and orgasmic experience (big toe on the prostate, anyone?).

So, here’s the kicker: this amazing, wonderful, vibrant FemDom I call friend has agreed to be interviewed as a bonus for “In Through the Out Door.” And I bet I can get her to say a fair piece on feet and bottom play.

So, before I have that talk with here, do any of you have questions about feet and bottoms? Heck, do you have questions about feet? I’ll gather those together, and add them to our list of topics to cover in the book.

*smiles*

Looks like I’ve gotten everything on my server fixed. Now, I just have one more day of catching up, and I’ll be ready to mail out that surprise!

Sooooo excited!

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Dirty Talk

So, let me just say that there has been A LOT of dirty talk coming out of my mouth over the past few days, and it wasn’t the fun kind. Well, not all of it, anyway.

Or even most of it.

*sighs*

Truth is, although I’ve been developing online for years, for some reason, the past year or so, it seems like hackers and server errors have taken more of my time than the actual work I do.

In this latest case, a blunt force mass attack put my personal dedicated server to unavailable status for two days, took down a site of mine (and I had to restore and rebuild), and put me 4-5 days behind schedule.

And damnit! That cuts into my kink time!

But that’s not fun to talk about. I’m just telling you because I promised a special goody for you, and I want you to know it’s coming. I haven’t forgotten.

But the dirty talk… the good kind. Well, that’s another story.

Just today, I was talking up a storm with my boy. It was a welcome start to a trying day. We played a bit with bonding, cuckolding and nurturing themes. And after, I was reminded of the chapter in “In Through the Out Door,” where I discuss various kinds of dirty talk

I have head over and over from men and women alike that they have a hard time figuring out what to say.

And they feel kind of silly saying the things that come to mind.

And I get that. I used to be exactly that way.

And, then I got over it.

As you’ve probably figured, it wasn’t that easy. And it was, in some ways. You see, I read a lot about dirty talk, and I though about dirty talk that I had loved during different encounters, and I realized something very simple:

It all sounds stupid, when you say it (or think it) outside of playtime.

ALL. OF. IT.

And during playtime, I can practically sing “Mary Had A Little Lamb,” and it will be hot. Because I am connecting with my boy (or girl), and the CONNECTION is what is important.

So, I’ve found that I just talk. Sort of a stream of consciousness.

When I first started, I had a theme for the evening that I began with, and riffed from there.

Now, I just talk.

And you know what? It works. And it’s hot. Not just for my partner, but for me. Expressing what is in my heart and my head during pleasure adds a level of connection above and beyond the physical.

In “In Through the Out Door” I discuss different types of dirty talk and how to get started dirty talking during backside playing. But I’ve really just shared the secret with you.

Try it. Say things you mean. Do it during hot sexy fun times.

Rinse. Repeat.

I hope your Monday is going well, and I’m going to get back to work on that special surprise…

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Your Surprise Is On the Way…

So, I suggested on Wednesday that you might be receiving a surprise yesterday. Thanks to some technical snafus, it wasn’t ready, and won’t be until a bit later this weekend.

That’s the bad news.

The good news is that I have some A-MAY-ZING interviews lined up as part of the bonuses for “In Through the Out Door,” to go with my interview of Alice Skary.

I’m going to head back to work… I’m behind thanks to those bugs, but I’m catching up, and I hope to get out and mingle with some kinky friends a bit tonight, before getting back to work in the morning.

Have a wonderful Friday!

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