Be Careful What You Wish For!

Every cuckold or cuckold-wannabe should hear these words ringing through their heads with every decision they make, every step towards or deeper into the cuckolding lifetstyle.

Don’t get me wrong. Cuckolding can be the most amazing, surprising, intimate journey you’ve ever taken—the ultimate arousal.

It can also be a nightmare-in-progress, with lies, betrayals, hurts, jealousies…

And if you’re standing in front of the judge, and the end of your broken relationship, trying to explain exactly what happened, will you be able to step up and admit, “I wanted her to sleep with other men…”?

Do cuckolding relationships always end badly? Of course not. No more than any other relationship.

Do they always end because of the cuckolding. Nope. There are so many reasons for relationships to end, cuckolding and it’s results is just one.

However, I still say, “Be careful what you wish for.”


Because cuckolding is like playing with fire. It affects your deepest, most primal emotions when it’s working and when it’s not.

Even more, cuckolding is not “you and me.” It’s “you and me and he and he and he…” and so on. You’re adding more variables (other people) into your relationship that you have no control over, and you have to be ready.

Who am I trying to kid? There is NO WAY you can be 100% ready.

You can, though, be prepared for what MIGHT come up. For example, what will you say/do when you hear:

“I’ve never been fucked better, I’ve never had bigger, I’ve never cum that hard.”

There is no going back from that. There is no unsaying the words, unfeeling the feelings, or unringing that bell.

If you’re taken by surprise, that could be the beginning of the end.

If you’re prepared, that could be the beginning of a new beginning. A new path of exploration as a couple, together.

It’s a big step. In fact, it’s a lot of big steps. Are you ready? As ready as you can be?

As an aside, my online cuckolding class is doing well with the testers so far. *smiles*


P.S. The title of this post is a nod to my friend Sarah and her chastity book.